CROSSROADS

Throughout life we tend to pick up information from people about 'life'. Everyone has their own definition. Until now, no one has a definite answer what life is - everyone seems to have their own interpretation. If you are like me, I don't always 'sync' well with people's believes and values, and often times half-way through them telling me what their interpretation is, my mind is smirking "What a load of rubbish (kindest word I can type here)". Often times when I speak to people and the topic becomes philosophical, where science has not been able to explain (not that it won't one day), I get restless as there is no 'end' to the discussion - there is no right answer or wrong answer. Or isn't there? After almost 1/2 a century living in this world, perhaps it is now time for me to document my own experiences about some of the most challenging times in my life when I had to make some of the most important decisions. I call this section of my website, 'Crossroads'. If you have come to this part of my webpage I'm sure you understand why I have chosen this name for this section. The stories below attempts to share how I chose what I had chosen when there was no hint nor clue to what the right answer should be. My way of finding out about live is to 'test' it - not just living in it, but 'poke' it. I often try to 'improve (change)' it by doing something, by 'action'. And not surprisingly, results will come out. This is obviously how 'history' is made. As obvious it may sound, most people are still lost in this subject. But with a little of faith, and patience, the choice you had made would make sense. And if you are sensitive enough to pick out the 'signals', you would get a glimpse of what 'life' is all about. And that will make all the difference.